Oh my, it appears I failed to mention the most important part of metal detecting. Always figure out what your wife wants, and get it. THEN you get your metal detector! She will not even be upset. How can she be? You just bought her something nice before you got yourself something.
You think I'm kidding? I learned that valuable lesson finally. Women are very forgiving if you always consult with them. The moment a woman feels like you're hiding something that is just asking for trouble. "Hey I really want this metal detector, it will help my nerves." "What do you think about this one?" and of course, "Hey how about if I get you that nice outfit you've been looking at?" Yep, I always talk to my wife before, during, and after a purchase. And we plan just what I will get and what she will be getting and make it happen for both of us. Been married 31.5 yrs now. Only thing I wish is that time hasn't gone so fast.