KOB
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Great response here Tom. This should be used in all your permission chats , rather than a dragged out book ! The only problem is many people do this in their daily life for everything when they know they are wrong. But for detecting , go for it !Yes, this is a reason to "grow a set" and not ask silly questions. Because, sure, perhaps it probably never crossed their mind, nor would they have cared or noticed. But they pass out the obligatory "no" to your 'pressing question". And then the mind-games start : Now you simply can't just go anyhow. Because, gee, you just got a "no". OR IF YOU DID simply just come back after 6pm, then guess what ? Now you feel 3x as awkward . You will not feel comfortable.
Thus yes: Just grow a set, and go look for your dad's boyscout ring after 6pm. Why make it difficult ?